It's been almost 5 years since my mom was hit and killed by a drunk driver while we were cycling with a group of friends. I don't want to recount the entire
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aftermath and have tried to forget many of the details of both... but one of the first things I know I said out loud when I realized that I'd never see her or talk to her again was "I still need my mom." Even though I was 24 at the time, moved out of my parents' house, and financially on my own, that statement (more of a wailing cry really) was true then and is still true today. No matter how old we are, we always, always still need our moms (and dads).
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My mom and dad. |
Whenever I start to feel bad for myself about losing my mom so early in my life, I try to put it all in perspective and remind myself that I am lucky. I was lucky to have a great mom for as many years as I did. Some people never have a mother-figure, not to mention a great one with whom they share a bond. I'm lucky because I have great memories of my mom and because she left behind artwork that is a constant reminder of her creative spirit and positive outlook on life. I'm lucky because my mom still believed in the hand-written letter and she wrote me weekly when I was in college and living in St. Louis for a year. I'm lucky because I'm a recovering pack-rat and I saved all of her letters.
I can't wait to share the memories, artwork and letters with Audrey as she gets older.
I'm also lucky, and so is Audrey, because the three parents Blake and I still have with us are wonderful. We also have a total of five of our grandparents still alive and well. That means that Audrey has three grandparents and five great-grandparents who will know her and love her. I'm still working on uploading the pictures with the other great-grandparents, but here's what we have so far!
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With Daddy, MiMoo, and Great Grandparents Borton |
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With Grandpa Bob |
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With MiMoo and cousin, Chloe |
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With Great Grandma Holly |
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With Grandpa Bob and Great Grandparents Bob and Rita in Cincinnati! |
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With MiMoo, Poppy and Chloe
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So lucky!
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